Pernicious
/pərˈnɪʃəs/ adjective hardCausing gradual, often unnoticed harm; insidiously destructive.
The pernicious effects of the rumor spread quietly through the office for months before anyone noticed.
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From Latin 'nex,' meaning death or destruction (as in 'internecine') — pernicious things do lasting damage, often while going unnoticed.